Tuesday, June 12, 2012

My 6-year old flirt....

For the past couple of years I've noticed that girls have started thinking Jaden was cute.  I had nothing to worry about because Jaden ONLY thought of girls as friends and all that other stuff was just discusting.

Over the last 6 months I've seen it evolve until today I realized I had a full flirt on my hands. 

Earlier this year Jaden told me that he'd like me to go blonde.  That got me thinking that he must think blondes were cute and I decided to see if I could get an if he had any crushes on any girls.  As I asked him about little blonde girls in his class, he'd say they were cute half-heartenly but then he blurted out "Anna's Cute."  I was a little shocked since Anna is totally a tom-boy and I really thought he thought of her as a buddy....and she's a brunette. 

As time went on I kind of forgot about it but then their family came over a couple of months ago and I saw him sneak a kiss on her back.  I was completely shocked and was speachless.  Then a few weeks later Anna confided in her sister that she thought she had a crush on Jaden. 

Then today at swim lessons Jaden was totally flirting with the two girls in his class and they were eating it up. My mouth kept dropping open. I couldn't believe what I was seeing.



 

It was an eye opener for me and I'm not sure how I'm supposed to handle such a young flirt.

Then tonight.  He sees his friend Emily out the window and this happens.

I don't think there was any flirting going on....I think they're still in the buddy/like sister relationship....BUT I'm starting to get nervous about this boy. 

I want to be that mom that you can tell things too even if I don't agree with the decision but I have a feeling I'll be more of that mom that freaks out even by the littlest thing. 


I just hope this innocent talking through the fence doesn't turn into holding hands through the fence or even worse...kissing!!!!


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