I must say it was very tempting to not have a party for the girls since they don't know that celebrations are in order for birthdays:). I realize with 4 kids that birthdays seem to swing around real fast and that I'm a little less excited then I used to be to have a party.
We decided that the girls LOVE an audience but that they didn't need all the parents for their party so we sent them off and let the girls soak up all the attention of their cousins.
They had a lot of confused gazes but loved the attention, cake, and gifts!!!